How Misunderstood Emails Lead to Employee Frustration

By Tom Borg

 

Effective communication is the backbone of any successful workplace. Yet, in the digital era, where emails dominate our communication channels, the risk of misinterpretation is ever-present. Misunderstood emails can breed frustration, harm relationships, and impact productivity. This article explores why email misunderstandings occur, the benefits of face-to-face communication, and actionable strategies for small business leaders to bridge communication gaps.

I know of one business who experienced this miscommunication event using email. The owner of the company sent out an email to one of his team members about a complaint they had received from a customer.

Of course, the first thing the employe did was get defensive and it was reflected in his email reply.  As you can imagine, from there things just escalated.

It can happen to everyone. On more occasions than I care to think, miscommunication through email and texting has happened with me and my small business clients as well as they within their teams.


The Hidden Risks of Email Communication

Emails are indispensable in modern business, offering speed and convenience. However, they come with significant limitations that can lead to misunderstandings.

1. Lack of Emotional Cues

Emails lack tone, body language, and facial expressions, which account for 93% of how we interpret communication. A message intended as neutral, such as “Please address this by Friday,” may come across as curt or demanding, causing unnecessary friction.

2. Overconfidence in Clarity

According to Psychology Today, people believe their emails are understood 90% of the time, yet nearly 50% of messages are misinterpreted. This disconnect occurs because email readers project their own emotions and assumptions onto the text.

3. Ambiguity in Instructions

When instructions aren’t crystal clear, employees may misunderstand tasks. For example, “Focus on customer satisfaction” can mean different things to different people without further clarification.

4. Email Overload

An average office worker receives dozens of emails daily. Important messages can easily get buried, leading to missed deadlines, forgotten tasks, or delayed responses.


Why Face-to-Face Communication Matters

While emails are valuable for routine updates, certain situations demand the nuance of face-to-face interaction.

1. Builds Trust and Rapport

Face-to-face communication fosters trust by showing genuine care and attentiveness. Employees feel valued and understood when their leaders engage with them personally.

2. Offers Immediate Feedback

In-person conversations allow for real-time clarification. Misunderstandings can be addressed instantly, saving time and preventing prolonged confusion.

3. Strengthens Emotional Connections

A smile, nod, or reassuring tone in a face-to-face conversation can significantly impact morale. These non-verbal cues are impossible to replicate in an email.

4. Deescalates Conflicts

Addressing disagreements through email can unintentionally escalate tensions. In-person discussions provide a platform to resolve conflicts constructively and rebuild relationships.


Common Scenarios of Miscommunication

Miscommunication often occurs when emails are used in situations better suited for personal interaction.

Delivering Feedback

Constructive criticism delivered via email can seem impersonal or harsh. A face-to-face conversation allows leaders to express empathy and provide actionable guidance.

Discussing Complex Topics

Strategic changes, project planning, or sensitive decisions require back-and-forth dialogue. Emails, with their rigid structure, can lead to fragmented understanding.

Addressing Urgent Matters

When time is of the essence, relying on email can slow progress. Immediate conversations cut through delays and ensure alignment.


Balancing Emails and Face-to-Face Communication

Striking the right balance between digital and in-person communication is essential for effective leadership.

1. Use Emails Strategically

  • Routine Updates: Send emails for announcements, schedules, or simple follow-ups.
  • Documentation: Use emails to create a paper trail for decisions and action items.

2. Schedule Regular Check-Ins

Host weekly or monthly meetings to connect with employees face-to-face. These interactions build rapport and ensure everyone is aligned on priorities.

3. Incorporate Video Calls

For remote teams, video calls mimic the personal touch of face-to-face conversations. They allow leaders to observe facial expressions and hear tone, reducing the risk of miscommunication.

4. Train Managers on Communication Skills

Equip managers with tools to identify when face-to-face communication is more appropriate than email. Effective communication training can drastically reduce workplace misunderstandings.


Practical Tips for Effective Workplace Communication

  • Be Clear and Specific: Whether writing an email or speaking in person, clarity reduces ambiguity.
  • Avoid Emotional Triggers: Re-read emails to ensure your tone is neutral and constructive.
  • Encourage Open Dialogue: Create a culture where employees feel comfortable asking for clarification.
  • Use Communication Tools: Collaboration platforms like Slack can reduce email clutter and improve team communication.

Call-to-Action: Elevate Your Workplace Communication Today

Miscommunication costs time, energy, and morale. As a business leader, mastering the art of balanced communication is key to maintaining a cohesive and motivated team.

Need expert guidance to improve communication within your team? Connect with me.  Call 734-812-0526 to schedule a consultation and take your business to the next level.

Tom Borg Consulting LLC  © All rights reserved

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Tom Borg


My name is Tom Borg. I am a business expert who works with small and mid-size companies to effectively and profitably improve customer acquisition and retention. I help these businesses through his use of my consulting, speaking, training and coaching. To ask me a question or to hire me, please contact me at: (734) 404-5909 or email me at: tom@tomborg.com or visit my website at: www.tomborgconsulting.com

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